Dating

Single? Is it a mistake of your making? 

A number of times I have met ladies that wonder why they are single. In fact, to them, being single is a choice. But is this true? How many times have you heard girls say that they hate men. Now the biggest question here is who is blame?

There are a number of things that you do that ensure you remain permanently single as a lady. I will highlight just a few today and this will be followed by other posts so don't worry, keep in touch and you will never regret your time on this site.

First of all, the lifestyle you lead as a lady determines your chances of dating a serious guy out there. If you are the party maniac that knows all the joints in town, big and small, plus the names their waiters and Djs by heart, then I must say that your chances of attracting a serious man reduce by about three quarters. 

When a man is looking for a marriage partner, he is instinctively looking for a mother of his children Therefore, a party girl doesn't provide hope for such.  Probably his children might catch a few negative behaviors from you! Secondly, that kind of exposure simply means that you have interacted with a number of men and probably slept with a number. Of course his might not be true but for men, the first question that rings in their minds is, " How many guys have you slept with?" They might not ask you this but they will always be on a lookout to find out probably how many have tasted the honey-jar before them.  This is why many men would rather get a girl from the church than from a club (even though even those in church might not be any better). Coming from a fast lifestyle means that the number of men that you have had might be many. Don't get me wrong. You all know what happens in the club. Morals are left outside at the door. Once you are inside, and a little bit tipsy or drunk, chances are that you will probably dance, misbehave, be touched inappropriately and even get laid on that same day. Therefore a clubber is no go zone for most men! Unless of course they are looking for someone to spend a good time with.

Secondly, what circle of friends do you keep? You know the saying : "Show me your friends and I will tell you exactly who you are?" The friends you keep determine the kind of person you are. If you keep slutty friends then probably you are also immoral. If you keep humble friends then you are an upright fellow. This is not always the case but to a larger percentage, that is how it works. Therefore, You attract good men when you keep good respectable friends. Not friends that pull you down. Not friends that compete about whose boyfriend is the richest, the best in bed or who received the biggest Christmas gift etc. If you have such people around your circles, you know, the girls that date grandparents? girl, run as if you just saw demons straight from hell!